Everybody's got amazing memories from their childhood,I do too:)
Honestly speaking I don't remember many things that happened to me back then but I sometimes get flashes of them-vivid,colourful n happy thoughts-almost seems like a dream now.Always wished i could go back in time to go through those experinces again but at the same time I hope my wish doesn't come true.While going through the same experiences might give me a lot more memories it might just lose it's sweetness.Who knows?Going into the past might even affect our present lives.As much as I regret some of my past decisions I don't think it's wise to mess with time or memories.
I've been told I was a very naughty child-all the time jumping over things and breaking them.Always used to getting trouble at school and fighting with my sister all the time.I was always in the middle of any kind of arguement or debate and was very reluctant to agree with things that I was supposed to just because I was supposed to do so.But inspite of all this I've always been on the positive side of thinking about everything.Some say I'm a born diplomat-I'm no such thing conciously.I just try to be myself with everybody and as far as i see,it seems to be working well.
Coming back to memories,I think it's not exactly important to remember every single detail of it.But it's very important for us to choose the right friends at that point of time.These could be the friends we make for life.The best part of childhood friendship is that we don't think so much about making friends with them.Nothin matters-language,religion,age.People might say this is true even now,that it's better now but then think about it,if u're meeting someone new now would u make friends as quickly as you did back then?If anyone says yes,the percentage would be very less compared to those who say no.Friendships made back then were pure and naive.Therefore we could trust them more and they're the best of listeners too.But the best part of it is that we don't have to explain ourselves to them about anything.If we're upset or if we've had an arguement-they jus know something's wrong without us telling them,I still don't understand how it happens but it just does.We do have little fights with our friends all the time-agreed,but that's no reason to break off the beautiful relation and glare at opposite ends.Forgive and forget is said to be best quote but friendship is beyond this particular line,it doesn't need forgiveness.If they truely were your friend they would know you didn't mean what u said or they might realise they were wrong.What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't have to apologise in friendship.It's the most sacred and beautiful thing on earth.Not everybody has the privilege of having good friends and certainly not everybody gets to choose their friends.Be wise in whom u choose as they play a very important role in your life.
Now I've a lot of very good friends in college too,nothing against you guys but i'm just trying to emphasise that the friendship developed during the early days in life are the ones to stay in your mind for longer.I'm sure many might not agree with me but it's just my view. My coll frnds rock too.I'm seriously gonna miss u people,pls do keep in touch.
Ok,that's my first ever blog and hopefully more to come soon.
Honestly speaking I don't remember many things that happened to me back then but I sometimes get flashes of them-vivid,colourful n happy thoughts-almost seems like a dream now.Always wished i could go back in time to go through those experinces again but at the same time I hope my wish doesn't come true.While going through the same experiences might give me a lot more memories it might just lose it's sweetness.Who knows?Going into the past might even affect our present lives.As much as I regret some of my past decisions I don't think it's wise to mess with time or memories.
I've been told I was a very naughty child-all the time jumping over things and breaking them.Always used to getting trouble at school and fighting with my sister all the time.I was always in the middle of any kind of arguement or debate and was very reluctant to agree with things that I was supposed to just because I was supposed to do so.But inspite of all this I've always been on the positive side of thinking about everything.Some say I'm a born diplomat-I'm no such thing conciously.I just try to be myself with everybody and as far as i see,it seems to be working well.
Coming back to memories,I think it's not exactly important to remember every single detail of it.But it's very important for us to choose the right friends at that point of time.These could be the friends we make for life.The best part of childhood friendship is that we don't think so much about making friends with them.Nothin matters-language,religion,age.People might say this is true even now,that it's better now but then think about it,if u're meeting someone new now would u make friends as quickly as you did back then?If anyone says yes,the percentage would be very less compared to those who say no.Friendships made back then were pure and naive.Therefore we could trust them more and they're the best of listeners too.But the best part of it is that we don't have to explain ourselves to them about anything.If we're upset or if we've had an arguement-they jus know something's wrong without us telling them,I still don't understand how it happens but it just does.We do have little fights with our friends all the time-agreed,but that's no reason to break off the beautiful relation and glare at opposite ends.Forgive and forget is said to be best quote but friendship is beyond this particular line,it doesn't need forgiveness.If they truely were your friend they would know you didn't mean what u said or they might realise they were wrong.What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't have to apologise in friendship.It's the most sacred and beautiful thing on earth.Not everybody has the privilege of having good friends and certainly not everybody gets to choose their friends.Be wise in whom u choose as they play a very important role in your life.
Now I've a lot of very good friends in college too,nothing against you guys but i'm just trying to emphasise that the friendship developed during the early days in life are the ones to stay in your mind for longer.I'm sure many might not agree with me but it's just my view. My coll frnds rock too.I'm seriously gonna miss u people,pls do keep in touch.
Ok,that's my first ever blog and hopefully more to come soon.
Very good start...Keep rocking !!!!
ReplyDelete:D thank you :)
Deletepoori nice... while reading even I got to back to all those days.....:) life is good....:)that was a nice one poori...
ReplyDeleteHey, thanks. That blog was really heart-felt. Though some of my views have changed about things these past few years. Maybe I'll write about it someday.
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